How can I keep from killing the grass and plants during the winter months?

Use EPA tested deicing product

Magic Salt product is the only evironmentally friendly, EPA tested deicing product on the market.  It works in extreme temperatures and does not harm your landscape areas or paved parking areas.  You may go to for more info. 

Comparison of Rock Salt to Magic Salt
Comparison of Regular Rock Salt and Magi[...]
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